Wednesday, October 21, 2020
Barry Pellatt
Practice
The first thing that comes to mind is the countless hours at athletic practice as a child. I have a great appreciation for all the opportunities provided to me by my parents that have helped shape who I am. Many of my happiest moments looking back revolved around practicing and being part of a team. I have had the opportunity to be both a player and a coach. I have been blessed to coach my two girls Lila and Molly.
I will not list the teams or the coaches or recall each season's highs and lows. Instead, I will try and share how "practice" has shaped who I am, the values I carry, and the lens that I view the world.
To practice: "to perform (an activity) or exercise (a skill) repeatedly or regularly in order to improve or maintain one's proficiency." - Oxford Languages
Practice to me is taking the time to better yourself and to learn how to interact with others with a common goal. Identifying as an athlete, team sports come to mind first when I reflect on the word practice. In reality, I view every interaction as an opportunity to practice or learn. No matter the situation I am looking to find a way to contribute to the world around me to add purpose to each day.
It is human instinct to want to do well and to be successful. This leads people to work harder in areas of strength and, in turn, avoid the things that are more challenging to them. Everyone has different skill sets and capabilities; practice and determination closes the gap and fosters growth. I have the privilege of working with high school students with many various "labels" and just as many talents. Every day I have the opportunity to support them in practicing the skill they will need to overcome their obstacles and focus on their strengths to build confidence to reach their personal goals.
As a child, I went to practice, class and participated in different social groups to learn. As I reflect now, I see that there was a coach, a teacher, a scoutmaster, a parent, a grandparent, a sister, a brother, or peer there to lead in each aspect.
To me, "PRACTICE" is being present and open to learning. It takes determination and resilience and maybe most importantly someone to lead and to guide.
Blessings, Barry